Friday, 6 May 2016

Day 4:

It's 5:30am I bolted awake. I was having a dream about you and things were actually good between us. However it looked like I was going to lose you again. So I think waking up was my bodies way of keeping me from feeling that pain again. Although now I have to try to sleep yet again with you on my mind.

Now that I'm actually awake you're still the focus of my life. We broke up and we need space. But every single day I think about you more then anything else. I need to learn to love myself I need to work on things by myself. Yet I always have you in my mind. How can I work on things when you won't leave me alone?

Did you love me? If you truly loved me I must've failed you so horribly to cause all of this to happen... But I don't doubt that you love me. That's the scariest part, that despite being in love. I managed to screw up enough times in large enough ways that caused us to break up. 

I've come to realize I am the teenage embodiment of my father. He treats my mother exactly how I treated you. I admire that man so much and my mother often talks highly of him and how sweet he is. However seeing how he talked to my Mom this evening I also understand how you would perceive me. You saw meaningless conversation, I saw meaningful conversation to try to get a feel for things, trying to actually make conversation. How in the world do I balance all of this? I don't even know what I'm saying anymore 

Absolutely everything related back to you still. Even the smallest of things remind me of you. You're somehow everywhere, there's always a way for a situation to remind me of you. 

I've come to realize my brain hasn't registered that we aren't dating. I still refer to you as my girlfriend. 

Someone just told me you're still into me.... Why do we have to be apart? How is this healthy? 
Yet I think maybe it's for the best. I think you're right, we need distance and space. But I can only pray the stars align and we can be together again. You noticing me in the first place was unpredictable, getting a second chance with you was astonishing. But now I think it would take divine intervention to allow us to be together again. 

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